So you are condoning a country to commit violence if you perceive them to being honest about it?
(Okay, slightly tongue in cheek).
Wars are fought for money or land, yes.
For me it is the lesser of two evils ... I perceive the Russian Federation are being more evil that the USA is in the context of our discussion.
Regarding spend ... according to this chart:
http://visualeconomics.creditloan.com/how-countries-spend-their-money/
the USA spends 19.3% of it's budget on the military and 17.3% on education.
the Russian Federation, 18.7% military and 11.3% education.
So the USA would be spending more in comparison terms than the Russian Federation.