The thing is Edwin, the leavers amongst us would have felt similarly hard done by - and with a similar strength of feeling - if things had gone the other way.
I'm not sure if you genuinely don't accept that?
You speak about this whole topic in the entirely black/white way that you see it, taking down to leavers and expecting us to empathise. That leavers must be completely stupid to believe what they do.
But this isn't a black/white topic - there are 100 shades of grey. We're not stupid, we just have different values and priorities to yours.
In a nutshell, your response demonstrates the gulf between Leave and Remain.
The Remain camp isn't (just)
feeling hard done by. We had and continue to have a massively overwhelming weight of expertise from just about every conceivable field that combines to confirm our view that Brexit will do much more harm than good. That's not the same as saying there's nothing positive to be found from leaving the EU, but simply that on balance there will be a vast amount more negatives than there will be positives.
I don't have to "believe" that. Facts continue to work in the absence of belief.
The facts are that the EU-affected markets are tanking, the pound has cratered (which will push inflation higher), pensions have been hit, annuitities are at an all-time low, grants and investments are being cancelled, jobs are being lost, firms are going bankrupt, EU staff are looking for other options, consumer sentiment plunged at a 21 year high pace, property starts are down, property funds are cancelling redemptions, etc. etc. Do your own Googling and you will be able to confirm every single point I just listed.
And all of that in just two weeks when (in theory) nothing has changed... What on earth willl the UK be like in a month, two months, six months - let alone the 2 years of turmoil and uncertainty that Article 50 will trigger?!
No wonder we're almost catatonic with despair! It's like half the country is aware of an impending disaster and the other half are skipping around happy but oblivious.
I will repeat the most important point for emphasis: facts are facts. They don't need "belief". Listen to the rhetoric coming from Leave right now today and it's pretty much still all "hope", "believe", etc. with nothing "real" whatsover to back up any of their statements.