Why would you bid if paypal is an option but not if bank transfer is? Don't you have Internet banking set up? I can't think of any other legit reason. Surely it's about as easy to log into yor bank and make a transfer as it is log into paypal.
No, I don't have a bank account, so no facilities for online banking, and even if I had my own bank account, I would never use online banking, after years of being involved in anti fraud stuff, I don't trust any form of online banking.
I don't particularly like banks/banking, never seen a need for them, always been a cash man away from the internet, never had a cheque book or credit card in my life, which means I've never been in debt, if I want something and can't afford to pay cash, then I can't afford it, is mostly how I go through life.
I use my Mrs' PayPal account in her name for domaining in order to accept and make payments for domains etc.
From a seller's perspective taking a 3% hit from paypal really sucks
Not the case, there's no need for the seller to take a hit, or the buyer either, personally, when I buy domains, I always pay the PayPal fee at my end so that the buyer gets the full amount, there is a way you can send PayPal to keep fees to a minimum or sometimes zero fee.
Someone recently sent me £800 and I asked them to send it the way that I send payments, they paid the fee at their end, except they didn't even get charged a senders fee, a lot of the time, you either pay no fee, or something low like £1.15 even on payments high £xxx