Hi. Some initial thoughts.
As the domain name has a hyphen, branding for recall is quite important. The copperplate font isn't ideal but could be OK, however the dark grey random distressing makes it read like Kim rather Him. If you're not wedded to the font and the distressing, I suggest going for a cleaner look. There are several different ways that you refer to For-Him across the site : all uppercase and all lowercase, for example.
I can see the reason for capitals in the vertical expansion of the letters on the About page, but even there I think you need to reinforce the hyphen as a separator between the third and four rows (and includ the hyphen in the introductory paragraph.
I suggest you use a simple Copyright statement, without the keyword stuffing.
The search box is extremely dominant. Fine if you want that as the main navigatiuon tool, but it distracts from the content on the main page.
The navigation on the righthand sidebars doesn't work as I expected : items are OK, but I expected clicking on the block's title bar to take me somewhere.
The list of blog entries at the bottom feels excessive.
I've never heard of Zirh, and when I use your search option nothing comes up.
Hope that helps,
David
